Toys, Toys, Toys!

Last modified: July 2, 2018 at 4:04pm

Happy Patriotism, everybody!

This show was so much fun! This week, Jack Layman joins me “in studio” (Skype) from Toronto, where they run the Come As You Are Cooperative, a sex-toy store that’s really so much more. Jack talks to me about their best sellers, tips for first-time-toy-buyers, how to bind SAFELY (more information below), and how to find the right strap-on and harness for you. I also get the dirt on manufacturers’ standards for vibes and dildoes, and why it’s so important to know and trust your retailer. Check the bottom of this post for links to Come As You Are, Gender Gear, and the magical Hitachi.

Also this week – local superstar Handsy Coppafeel joins me in studio for question period. This week, we touch on challenging parents and parents-in-law; surprises in bed (hint: I don’t think there should be surprises in bed); getting wet; and a few folks who are struggling with monogamy, in some way or another.


Don’t forget to send in your questions here – I’m answering them every week!

Next week, local superstar Jesse and Ollie join me for question period, and Sexual Empowerment Coach Jessica Budgell tells me what sexual empowerment is, and how we can all do it – don’t miss it!

Love and hugs,




The study about chest binding that Jack and I discussed (please feel free to send in more if you know of them!):  Health impact of chest binding among transgender adults a community engaged cross sectional study

Come As You Are Cooperative & Gender Gear

The Njoy Pure Wand

Vibratex (Hitachi) Magic Wand